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Characteristics
Gender:
Man
Current Status:
Married and Open
Looking for:
Friends with benefits
Body Type:
Average
Eyes:
Blue
Height:
5' 10"
Hair Type:
Brown
Age:
40
Seeks:
Woman for Dating

Woman for Friendship

Profile
Education:
Graduate school
Ethnicity:
Caucasian
Religion:
Jewish Hindu Animist
Political Leanings:
Leftie
Neighborhood:
Greenfield
City:
Greenfield
Occupation:
Anti social worker
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Habits
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Drugs:
Not interested
Personality
I get around town via: Car, Walk
My dietary preferences are: Vegetarian
I spend my free time: Reading, Watching movies, Sleeping, What free time?
Funniest Thing: A monkey on roller skates

Progressive, Goofy and Open

I am a married White Male, former native of Boston who moved out here with my awesome wife (life mate if you prefer) back in the earlier part of the century. Recently we decided to open the marriage up, not out of desperation or boredom but out of a mutual respect for each other's curiosities. I take life seriously but myself not at all. I have a wonderful daughter who is my teacher and pal. I love music, books, vegetarian politics and food. I'm flippant but not ironic, compassionate but not maudlin and am looking for a woman who is interested in that old chestnut, "Friends with Benefits". I have the relationship I intend to grow old in, but am looking for something fun and casual as a respite from the day to day grind of life.

Deeper

If you could have a dinner party and invite any 4 people, dead or alive, who'd be coming? Paul Robeson, Che Guevara, Srila Prahbupada, Jim Morrison.

Three things I want from my ideal mate are: I like humor, honesty and curiosity.

If you are about to enter a room full of total strangers, what song would you want played to accompany your entrance? "Israelites", by Desmond Dekker. I'm all about 1960's ska!

One movie everyone should see is: "Come And See", brutal anti-war movie that will resensitize you.

Who are your favorite authors and why? Richard Price for his intelligent page turners, George Orwell who continues to be ahead of his time and Sinclair Lewis who's words we still don't heed.

What is your most prized possession? I recently stopped having prize possessions. Can't take it with you when you die.

Quote a line from your favorite movie. "You can't fight in here, this is the War Room" from "Dr. Strangelove".

If you are a super-hero, what is your power? People have to start listening to each other.

If you could, what's one thing you would change about yourself? My occasional anxious nature.

Fill It

I consider myself an open-minded person, but my deal breakers are psychotics and bigots

Design your ideal mate: the brain of mother Jones and the body of Janeane Garofalo

If you have a pet, it better not be a furry spider

The first section I turn to in the Valley Advocate is arts

The quickest way to my heart is conversation The quickest way to my bed is humor And in the morning, I like my eggs cooked any old way.

It's Sunday morning at 10 a.m. If I'm not still sleeping, I'm hanging out with my daughter

The best part of living in the Valley is rural setting and like mind folk.

I wouldn't be who I am if still drank and drugged.

I wouldn't sell my current life for a billion dollars.

When I was a kid, I actually owned a set of "American Heritage". Still do!

My guiltiest pleasure is celebrity gossip.

My biggest pet peeve is smug hipsterism.

Something I learned from the last person I dated was stay flexible and loving.

My idea of a great date is good talk, fun, food.

I couldn't live without daughter.

My pictures(s) reveal that I am , I don't know, what do you think?

If I had one day left to live, I would spend it with my family and pet chickens.

In and Out

Boston or New York

Whole Foods or Big Y

Downtown Northampton or The Holyoke Mall

Cow's milk or Soy milk

Take-out or Dine-in

CD or MP3

Church or Brunch

Flip-flops or Birkenstocks

Yoga or Aerobics

Turn it Up! or Best Buy

Pearl St. or Maximum Capacity

Kittens or Puppies

Diet or Regular

Early Bird or Night Owl

Hot or Mild

Salt or Pepper

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